Rotarians join forces to bring Christmas joy to domestic violence refuges

Rotarians, Toy Box Appeal

Rotarians from across Coventry and Warwickshire are joining forces to bring some festive cheer for children who have fled domestic violence this year.

Rotary Clubs in Leamington, Warwick, Warwick Avon, Stratford, Kenilworth, Southam 2000, Rugby, Rugby Breakfast, Shipston, Alcester and Bidford, Arbury, Nuneaton, Coventry, Coventry Jubilee, Coventry Phoenix and Meriden Rotary Clubs are among those supporting the 2024 Rotary Toy Box Christmas Appeal.

Each club will help fund the boxes filled with over £80 worth of new toys suitable for that child’s age and gender, which will be distributed to more than 580 children at six refuges in the area.

The scheme, which is being run in conjunction with national charity Kids In Mind, hopes to raise £14,600 to fund enough boxes for Rotary’s Heart of England District 1060.  

Rotarian Bill Elliott, who has run the appeal for the last four years, said: “I felt that this project was much needed for these vulnerable families as, I had in my working life, seen what despair these families suffer when they have to move out of their family home with virtually nothing.”

“This year in the UK over 5,600 children will be residing with their single parent (usually their mother) in a domestic violence refuge, many initially arriving at the refuge with only what they can carry and having witnessed or experienced physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. Having been forced to leave home at a moment’s notice, they are fleeing from domestic violence, moving over 30 miles or more from their friends, staying in a strange place, not knowing what tomorrow will bring.

“The location of these refuges by necessity need to remain secret, which often means that these single parent families and especially the children are often forgotten or remain ‘anonymous’.

Kids in Mind is a Hertfordshire-based charity, established by Gordon Moulds CBL DL and Julian Margolin specifically to provide wellbeing and mental health support to children that have escaped serious domestic violence and found sanctuary in a Women’s refuge.

UK Rotary clubs working for, and within their own local communities are committed to ensure ‘Every Refuge, Every Child’ receives a Rotary Christmas Toy Box.

A Toy Box provides a child with a sense of security, comfort and a distraction from their daily challenges.

Research has shown that children who have access to toys and play materials tend to have better cognitive and social development and are able to express their emotions, enabling them to work through difficult experiences. Any public donations can also be made, direct to Bill Elliott via: billmeg29@hotmail.co.uk

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  • Currently there are around 450 staffed Women’s Refuges in the UK with a pre-pandemic average of over 20000 children and their mothers passing through every year.
  • Children who have experienced domestic abuse often suffer from a range of mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), behavioural problems.
  • According to the Birmingham Crisis Centre, around 50% of refuge children have personally suffered abuse, mainly sexual, of which 70% are at the hands of their father.
  • The children that have been sexually abused have the highest rate of suicide, excluded from school and runaways out of any group in the UK.
  • Many children with mental health issues also experience difficulties in school, potentially leading to the need for special education services. Children with unaddressed mental health issues often struggle academically, which can result in lower educational attainment.
  • Children with experience of domestic abuse are at a higher risk of engaging in criminal behaviour., substance misuse and decreased employment prospects in adulthood. In adulthood they are more likely to have a perceived below average quality of life.

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