Dad among cyclists raise who over £80k for children’s charity inspired by his daughter

Dad among cyclists raise who over £80k for children’s charity inspired by his daughter

Molly Ollys, bike ride
Arriving at The Durham Ox welcomed by big Olly The Brave. Photos by John Cleary Photography.

Fifty cyclists have raised more than £80k for Warwickshire children’s charity Molly Ollys after battling downpours and punctures to complete a gruelling 190-mile bike ride, ending in south Warwickshire.

Months of training culminated in the hardy fundraisers saddling up in Brighton town centre on Friday (September 6th) and setting off on the three-day ride to The Durham Ox in Shrewley, stopping overnight at Winchester and Witney en route.

Among the local riders taking part was Tim Ollerenshaw, from Hatton Hark, who established the charity with his wife Rachel in 2011 following the death of their eight-year-old daughter Molly from a rare kidney cancer.

Tim, 66, was proud to be able to join the fundraisers after battling back to rude health following a heart attack and subsequent triple bypass operation just two years earlier.

Molly Ollys, bike ride
Karen Robbins and Tim Ollerenshaw

He recalls: “I had just had a test which shockingly had resulted in my being unreleasable from Warwick Hospital, pending a bypass operation. These were scary moments as I hadn’t even realised I’d had a heart attack.

“I wrote letters to all my kids in case the surgery did not work which is emotional high stakes in itself. Initially after the operation it was a major struggle to even walk very far but much sleeping and recovery later, gingerly starting playing hockey again.”

Tim nearly never made the start line however after suffering chest pains again the day before the ride, a scare that, thankfully, turned out to be muscle strain – and so the trip was back on.

“I had to be more cautious than I would like to be especially as I was in hospital the day before thinking I was having another heart attack! Fortunately, it wasn’t.

“Day one presented us with the worse weather I have ever cycled in and no one would have chosen to cycle that day but to do it for Molly and other children like her who face much worse, was paramount in my mind and for the duration of the ride. It is humbling that we have raised so much. Thank you to all our donors.”

Molly Ollys, bike ride

Molly Ollys works to support children with terminal or life-limiting illnesses and their families and help with their emotional wellbeing. As well as providing wishes, they donate therapeutic toys and books to both children directly and to hospitals throughout the UK.

Mascot of the charity is a therapeutic toy lion called Olly The Brave who has his own Hickman line and a detachable mane which helps to explain and normalise the effects of chemotherapy. It forms part of an Olly The Brave pack that has now been handed out to more than 70 hospitals or health centres, along with a set of books from the charity’s exclusive Olly The Brave series.

Part of more than £4m raised to date, has also been used to fund the first Molly Olly consultant in paediatric medicine at Birmingham Children’s Hospital.

Molly’s mum Rachel said: “This year’s cycle ride was probably the most challenging, mainly in part to the weather conditions. When we left Brighton on the Friday morning it was wet and grey and just got progressively worse, even the most seasoned of cyclists said it was tough.

“The night before I had talked about our work, the children we support and shared individual stories.  Many of the riders said this helped to keep them focused and spurred them on when they were cold and aching.”

The cyclists received a lot of support en route, including New Horizon Logisitcs, in Warwick, Oakland International Ltd, in Redditch (who also entered 17 cyclists); Affordable Warm Solutions, in Solihull; John Cleary Photography in Leamington; Leonardo Hotels; Premier Inn; Travelodge UK; The Golden Lion Pub in Winchester and Pizza Express.

Molly Ollys, bike ride
Tina Barnett, Craig Morris, Alan Wright and Rachel Ollerenshaw at The Durham Ox.

“As always, the welcome home is massively emotional for all and there were many tears when all the cyclists rode in together. The emphasis for the whole weekend is about working as a team, so we ride in as a team. Together we are stronger. We are incredibly grateful for their strength and dedication.

“Molly Ollys work with other charities and health professionals to get the best support to the children that need it. These cyclists working as a team raised a phenomenal amount. I cannot thank everyone involved in all aspects from start to finish enough. What a brilliant achievement all round that will enable us to help many children.”

Donations in support of the cyclists are still welcome HERE.

 

GOBSMACKED! COLUMN: Interview with Louise Bates

GOBSMACKED! COLUMN: Interview with Louise Bates

Matt Bates, Louise Bates, podcast

STANDFIRST: When Leamington’s Catherine Williamson embarked on her new podcast, Gobsmacked! little did she anticipate how much it would reignite her own buried emotions. In this new series, she introduces us to some of the guests which have most inspired her.

This month we meet Louise Bates from Leamington. Listen back to Louise’s podcast interview HERE.

Since losing her son to a rare cancer eight years ago, Louise Bates has learned the route to nourishing her own recovery is through helping others with theirs.

Two books, a blog, and now a podcast, dedicated to supporting people through the grief process, have proved to be an emotional lifeline for the entrepreneur, from Leamington.

Matt Bates, Louise Bates, podcast

In Letters To Matthew: Life After Loss she shares with readers inspirational quotes and insights into her journey of self-discovery. The book, which has sold hundreds of copies since it was published five years ago, also includes heartfelt tributes from Matt’s father Bill and sister Sarah.

A Gift of Grief, released three years later, looks at all the healing techniques which helped Louise, including advice, therapy information, meditations and case studies of some of her holistic therapy clients.

Twenty episodes into her podcast of the same name – launched on Matt’s birthday last year – and she continues to inspire a growing audience who also find solace in her guests’ stories.

Matthew had recently started his new dream role as a journalist, after graduating from Brighton University, when he was diagnosed with Type 2 Papillary Renal Cell Carcinoma in 2014, an extremely rare and aggressive tumour that affects only five per cent of kidney cancer sufferers.

But it was more than two years before the severity of the condition was to become known.

Louise, 65, reflects: “We were in complete shock. The bottom of our world just fell out. But then a survival mechanism kicks in. It still feels unbelievable today that this happened to our family.

“When he was told, the consultant came in and held his hand. Matthew was shaking. You could feel the shock through him. For half an hour we just held each other and cried.”

Despite undergoing surgery to remove his kidney, they later learned the cancer had spread but, despite being accepted on various new trials, his body, sadly, did not respond to the treatments.

On his last night in Myton Hospice, in October 2016, his family bore witness to a bedside wedding to his girlfriend of nine years.

“It was wonderful to see Matthew’s face. I’m so happy he got his last wish. I stayed with him that night. I stayed awake and I held him. It turned out to be his last night.”

Louise with Catherine Williamson

It was soon after Matt’s death, at the age of just 27, that Louise sought solace penning heartfelt letters to her son, eventually turning them into her first book.

She said: “I’ve had amazing feedback for my books from people all over the world, including Australia, from a lady who lost her son with the same type of rare cancer. She was really struggling with her grief and said it helped her process her emotions. When you get feedback like that, it’s incredible.

“While grief is a sensitive subject I approach it in a way that feels both real and honest. The experience of losing my son sent me on a journey through the darkest depths of my soul but by sharing my story, and my learnings, I now have a passion for supporting others going through a similar journey.”

It’s the same passion that has driven Louise to recently put herself through a programme of specialist grief training.

She added: “Combined with my training and my personal experience, I feel confident I can help other people who are going through grief.

Matt Bates, Louise Bates, podcast
Louise and Bill at their beloved Watersmeet where they remember Matt on his birthday every year.

“When I was going through the rawness of grief in the early days, I just wanted to sit and feel everything that it threw at me. But every now and again, just to get out of that space, I started listening to podcasts with other people who had lost loved ones and it completely resonated with me and I felt less alone.

“I never ever thought I would start a podcast myself. I’m not somebody that puts myself out there, I like to sort of sit back and watch the world go by and not go out of my comfort zone. But Catherine was a big inspiration and it was after being a guest on her show that it really planted the seed.

“I feel that Matthew is with me when I’m doing this and that I’m being guided by him. I think he would be proud.”

Louise and Bill mark Matt’s birthday every August with a trip to a favourite family spot at Watersmeet in north Devon, where they drop a painted pebble in the river in a private ritual of remembrance.

Matt Bates, Louise Bates, podcast

While the weight of grief continues to bear heavy on Louise, she is now able to say she has accepted her son’s death as well as how to live with it. Motivated by his memory, she now plans to wind down her holistics therapy business in order to dedicate more time to the podcasting and, finally, to herself.

She said: “Grief comes in waves and in the beginning you feel like you’re constantly being bashed by them and then over time you get a bit of a lull in the wave and you can breathe and then the waves get smaller and the spaces in between the waves get longer, and then you think you’re doing really well and suddenly the tsunami will come and knock you over again. It could be seeing somebody in the street who looks like Matthew or a song on the radio or some random thought that pops into my head. I’ve accepted that because I know now even that if a massive tsunami comes, I’m going to survive it. I know I’m going to come out the other side.

“It’s like a grief shadow, you know, that it’s there. But it’s like it’s Matthew and so it’s a good feeling. Sometimes it can be so strong, like an overwhelming feeling of love, like Matthew’s given me a virtual hug. I’ve accepted his death, I’m able to move on in my life. I just carry it with me now but I carry it with love.”

Both Louise’s books are available to buy on Amazon HERE and are also available on Audible.

A Gift For Grief podcast episode can be heard HERE.

Matt Bates, Louise Bates, podcast

WHAT CATHERINE SAYS: “I was at Matthew’s funeral, observing a family ripped apart by a cruel, terrible, indiscriminate disease, cancer. Louise and I met, as it happens, on a retreat, looking into our past lives. I loved her energy, and she was my kind of woman. And over the years, I’ve pushed and prompted her because I could see she’s got so much about her. Her books are making a phenomenal difference. As a guest on my podcast, I was delighted when, again, being prodded, she started podcasting too. Her Gift of Grief podcast is a really wonderful resource for people gripped by loss and grief. Louise has absolutely turned her pain into purpose.

Be inspired by well-known local journalist and author at charity speaking event

Be inspired by well-known local journalist and author at charity speaking event

Suzanne Virdee, Ladies First
Suzanne Virdee with her book A Girl’s Guide To Being Awesome.

Girl power takes centre stage in south Warwickshire at a fundraising event featuring a renowned TV journalist, broadcaster and author.

A familiar face on local and national screens, Suzanne Virdee, from Redditch, will talk about her inspiring career, offering valuable insights into her path to success, including challenges faced working in the media industry.

Suzanne Virdee, Ladies First

At ‘Lunch With Virdee’ at The Warwickshire Golf & Country Club, in Leek Wotton, she will also be sharing insights from her two books, A Girl’s Guide To Being Awesome and the best-selling A Teenager’s Guide To Being Fabulous, as well as her passion for empowering young girls with advice on navigating the difficult teenage years.

Suzanne Virdee is an award-winning TV news anchor and freelance journalist, who has presented the ITV National News, ITV News London, Channel 5 News and BBC Breakfast, as well as reporting for BBC Radio 4. She’s best known in the Midlands for co-presenting the 6.30pm BBC regional news programme Midlands Today alongside Nick Owen for 11 years.

Over her career she’s also been a passionate supporter and mentor to women starting out in journalism. She was horrified recently to be told by teachers that girls were suffering with low self- esteem – and that social media and the internet were a big factor.

Speaking about her latest book she said: “I wish it wasn’t needed but it is – more than ever. The NSPCC reported there is: ‘A deeply rooted notion that girls and young women’s bodies are somehow the property of boys and young men.’

“It’s limiting and dangerous. We all have a responsibility to make sure our next generation of girls find their inner sparkle so they can truly thrive, not just survive, and that’s what my book aims to do.

“I am extremely passionate about this subject because, obviously, I’m a woman and was once a girl and have a certain amount of ’soft power’ being a journalist. I’m looking forward to this event, being in a room surrounded by like-minded women.”

‘Lunch With Suzanne,’ on October 2nd, has been organised by Ladies First Professional Development Group who are hoping to raise enough money to purchase 50 copies of Suzanne’s book to donate to disadvantaged and vulnerable young girls in the area.

Tracey McAtamney, Surviving Bereavement, Platinum Champion Award

Co-director Tracey McAtamney, pictured above, said: “At Ladies First we are passionate about supporting young people and empowering the next generation. Suzanne’s book is a must-read for young girls everywhere, touching on life skills, social media, body image and self-esteem. We very much look forward to this event.”

Tickets, which also include a welcome drink and two-course lunch, are available to purchase HERE.

To enquire about sponsorship opportunities contact Tracey McAtamney at: tracey@ladiesfirstnetwork.co.uk

Review: A Chorus Line, Birmingham Hippodrome

Review: A Chorus Line, Birmingham Hippodrome

Photography by Marc Brenner

Set the scene – New York City. 1975. On an empty Broadway stage, seventeen performers are put through their paces in the final, gruelling audition for a new Broadway musical. 

Only eight will make the cut.

A Chorus Line is a musical masterpiece that revolutionised Broadway, but for the uninitiated, it’s not a musical in the sense we’re most accustomed to. With no interval (so ensure you grab your toilet break before curtain up!) no scene changes and only one costume change, this production relies on capturing and holding our attention for an entire scene.

A Chorus Line, Birmingham Hippodrome, review

It’s testament to director Nikolai Foster and his production team that it succeeds in doing so, such is the scrutiny with which each of writers James Kirkwood and Nicholas Dante’s characters are explored. One by one they step into the spotlight to share their intimate life story with stern show director Zach, played ably by Adam Cooper.

This material comes from creator Michael Bennett’s real-life testimonies during late-night recording sessions with dancers. Stripped back staging and clever use of lighting make for a fitting backdrop to a show that delivers often raw and unapologetically emotional subject matters.

A Chorus Line, Birmingham Hippodrome, review

But the result is actually a celebration – a nod to the lives of theatre’s unsung heroes in the chorus line, as they tell searing stories of ambition, shattered hopes, and what it really costs to follow your dreams.

There were all-round stand-out performances from a powerhouse of an ensemble and the choreography is step perfect. It features iconic songs including OneI Hope I Get ItNothing and the hit ballad What I Did For Love.

But it’s the finale this show is best known for and last night’s curtain-closer didn’t disappoint – the moment the scene switches from rehearsal to that of much-anticipated opening night – and what a night! Costumes, spectacular lighting and even pyrotechnics helped close (our show) with a bang!

A Chorus Line, Birmingham Hippodrome, review

As a huge fan of musical theatre but a first-timer to A Chorus Line, it took me a little while to settle into the format of fewer dance numbers and more narrative than I might usually have liked. But by the end I was fully invested – and it’s worth hanging around if only for the big dance finale alone!

A Chorus Line plays at The Birmingham Hippodrome until Saturday, September 14th. Tickets can be booked HERE.

Leamington foodie supports 22nd charity ball organised by two-times cancer survivor

Leamington foodie supports 22nd charity ball organised by two-times cancer survivor

Sue Cressman, Nailcote Hall, Bia's Kitchen Show, Pink Ball

Showbiz faces will be among the fundraisers supporting the much-anticipated annual Pink Ball at Nailcote Hall Hotel Golf & Country Club in Berkswell next month.

Actor Christopher Walker – best known for his role in BBC soap Doctors – and Modern Romance frontman Andy Kyriacou, are on the guest list for the Ball, which is set to raise thousands of pounds towards local state-of-the-art cancer treatment at local hospitals.

It is also being supported by Leamington foodie Bianca Rodrigues-Perry who has dedicated a special episode of her Bia’s Kitchen Show to Breast Cancer Awareness.

Sue Cressman, Nailcote Hall, Bia's Kitchen Show, Pink Ball

It marks the 22nd year of the glittering event, which has so far raised more than £500k for the hospitals. And it’s a cause very close to the heart of the hotel’s co-owner and two-times cancer survivor Sue Cressman, from Dorridge.

The 65-year-old, who underwent a mastectomy ten years ago, has been continuing to give back with the life-saving medical equipment which includes localizer probes. This new technology leads to more accurate surgery with less damage to healthy tissue and a reduction in the need for radiation, at Solihull, Heartlands and Queen Elizabeth Hospitals.

Sue has also teamed up with Leamington foodie and influencer Bianca Rodrigues-Perry to offer two tickets to the Ball as a prize in a special episode of Bia’s Kitchen Show, ahead of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, in October.

Sue Cressman, Nailcote Hall, Bia's Kitchen Show, Pink Ball
Andy Kyriacou

She shared her story on the show and Bia cooked a gluten-free detox oven omelette containing healthy ingredients to help the body nutritionally in its prevention of cancer.

At just 32 years old, Sue found a lump in her breast but, following an examination, she was reassured and sent home without any further tests. Just months later she collapsed in pain while at a public speaking event in America.

Sue’s treatment included ten months in a hospice while undergoing gruelling chemotherapy, radiotherapy and surgery.

She said: “I have no idea where all the strength came from to deal with all of this. I just thought I’m going to have to bloody well fight. I always say I had an annus horribilis exactly the same year as our late Queen! While I was watching Windsor burn I was having chemo!

Sue Cressman, Nailcote Hall, Bia's Kitchen Show, Pink Ball
Sue presents a localiser machine to Selena Bains Consiltant Breast Surgeon at Queen Elizabeth Hospital.

Some 21 years after believing she’d beaten the disease, Sue later learned her cancer had returned and, in 2013, she was forced to make the agonising decision to have her breast removed. It also resulted in 16 corrective surgeries due to complications due to her earlier radiotherapy.

“I didn’t want to have the mastectomy but once it was done and I was sitting up in ICU I was relieved thinking, at least it’s finished. I wasn’t living under the threat of breast cancer anymore,” she said.

This life’s chapter also inspired Sue, in 2018, to record her own charity single, Survive, written by her husband of 15 years Rick and their friend Guy Barnes. It was later adopted by top arranger and producer Ian Wherry who has worked with such musical greats as Elaine Paige, David Essex and David Cassidy.

“As my song says, it’s a journey and you know the road will be long but you’ve got to keep on going,” she said.

“That is my strapline. You’ve got to have hope and you’ve got to have strength. And if you allow yourself to be taken in by this terrible weight of distress then that road is going to be so much harder.”

This year’s Pink Ball, on October 5th, is being supported by Christopher Walker, whose roles also include Larry ‘Tiger’ Barton in the BBC drama Merseybeat, and musician Andy Kyriacou, the original drummer in 80s band Modern Romance. He became lead singer when he reformed the band in 1999. A host of auction lots on the night will include a signed presentation piece with singles and CD cover, donated by Kyriacou, as well as  Frank Bruno-signed boxing gloves.

The event is being sponsored by 6th Gear Experiences and live entertainment will be provided by The Jersey Rollers, featuring West End star Michael Watson.

Sue Cressman, Nailcote Hall, Bia's Kitchen Show, Pink Ball

To date, the Pink Ball events are estimated to have raised around £500k to hospitals in and around the West Midlands, including biopsy machines, Hilotherapy machines that reduce pain after surgery, infuser kits and garden furniture for chemotherapy units.

Sue said: “My fundraising is a debt of gratitude to the wonderful doctors and nurses and I really felt I wanted to raise money for the comfort of other breast cancer patients by giving them the help and equipment they need immediately.

“I go to see a consultant in breast cancer units and ask them what they need. Small things can make all the difference – and event guests get to see exactly where the money goes.”

Sue is also the guest on a special episode of Bia’s Kitchen Show, dedicated to Breast Cancer Awareness Month, when viewers can win themselves a pair of tickets to The Pink Ball.

See the episode, from September 20th, at: https://biaskitchenshow.com/ and to enter, comment with the word ‘PINK’ at @Biaskitchenuk on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube.

Tickets can be booked HERE